“Jesus said to them: ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not
hinder them, for the Kingdom of God belongs to such as these.’” (Mark
10:14)
Our children's message has become a central part of weekly worship. This Sunday, Kids Worship takes the children's message to a new level. |
When I was in seminary, I got to
spend a summer interning at a church in rural North Carolina. On my first visit to the church I was greeted
by a church member and her six year old daughter, Hannah. Hannah was full of life and energy, and she
enthusiastically began giving me a tour of the church building. She showed me her Sunday School room, the
fellowship hall, and the playground.
When we
came to the end of our tour, I was surprised that she hadn’t shown me the
sanctuary. “Aren’t you going to show me
the sanctuary?” I asked. “Oh, I don’t go
in the sanctuary,” Hannah replied. “That room is for grown ups.”
As I got to
know some members of the congregation, I realized very quickly that no one ever
told Hannah she wasn’t allowed in the sanctuary, or that the worship space
was for grown ups only. No one needed
to. Actions speak louder than words.
In Hannah’s
experience every time she walked into the sanctuary she was told to sit
quietly, and was always given something else to do – like a coloring book –
while the grown ups worshipped. Hannah
believed that the sanctuary was for grown ups because she never felt included
or valued in anything that happened in that space.
From that
day forward, I decided that I wanted to be the kind of pastor who made sure
children understood that the sanctuary is for them, and that worship isn’t just
for adults – it’s for the whole people of God.
This
Sunday (April 29th), Faith UMC is having its first ever Kids Worship service. Our 10:00 service will engage children in
every aspect of worship. The kids will
not be dismissed part way through the service for Sunday School, and there will
be no nursery care. The children will be
part of the entire service.
My hope is
that such a time of worship will be inspiring not just for our children, but
for our entire congregation. Together,
we have the opportunity to make sure our children know that the sanctuary is
not a “grown ups only” space. It’s a
space for the young, the old, and everyone in between.
If you’re
an adult coming to worship this Sunday, I hope you’ll come with a child-like
spirit, ready and willing to surround, encourage, and support our children as
they learn how to sing praise, pray, and engage the scriptures. If you’re a parent, I hope you’ll let your
child know ahead of time that they’re going to have the chance to participate
in the service. They don’t
need to prepare anything, but they do need to know that their participation
will make God (and the rest of us) smile.
I’ll see
you in Kids Worship!